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Watch Out for Risky SinglesWhat is it about a situation that makes you feel uncomfortable or uneasy. Singles don't always portray their true self right away and by the time you notice something isn't right it may be too late. Watch out for these red flags that you should look out for when going online to find love.WIN A FREE VACATION! Enter your email and/or mobile number to receive updates on dating events, parties and cruises near you. Every month one lucky entry will win a free vacation! Click here to read about the vacation offered!
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SecretiveWe know that on a first date, most singles don't expose their deepest darkest secrets, but keep an eye out for someone who refuses to answer any questions. Work related questions, unless the job is completely confidential like CIA, FBI, or some military service, there is no reason for him/her to hide it from you. Ask yourself if they are avoiding questions or just uncomfortable talking about it. The difference is that someone who has family issues will not avoid the question and actually tell you he doesn't want to talk about it.Overly SexualSome singles are open to the whole just sex thing but if you aren't listen to how often the topic comes up. Make sure that innuendos are just jokes and not subliminal messages. If he/she is all over you physically, that is a bright light as to what they are looking for.Money IssuesI know you have heard those stories about people who started dating someone and in a couple of months they ran away with their life savings. Just like sex, see how often the topic of money comes up. Is your date either boasting about major investments s/he made, or telling you about their poor helpless mother. If they talk a lot about money, they are all about money.Day DreamerHow often have you found your dating partner day dreaming or caught them not listening as they answer questions inappropriately. Don't be fooled, this is a person with A.D.D. which you may not want, or have the capability to focus for too long. Do you really want someone like that?Wondering EyeNot all singles that look necessarily touch and just because they don't look it doesn't mean that they are faithful. However, statistically you are more likely to get cheated on by a wo/man who can't keep their eyes on their plate. Focus to see if you are sitting in front of one of those people.Control FreaksWho decided your date? Who ordered your food? Who did most of the talking? It is easy to let this one slide, but if he controlled what, when, where and why, he might have a slight control problem. The best way to test it is to attempt to make a suggestion and see how much attention is actually paid to it or if any offence is take by it. If there is an issue, you may have yourself a control freak. |
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